Satyaki De - SQL Exploration

I'm not habituated with this blogging skill - since i'm a not a very old here.

I may be wrong - but today after reading many blogs - i felt we are really missing something.

Now, We all are alone and desperately want to get cordial relationship and attention which we lacks in our home or with our childhood friends(Not always true...).

Question is - why are we going for this kind of deliberate exposure? I think we are miserably lonely even we have cell phone, mail and other latest gizmo.

I'm not pessimistic. But, this is what currently happening among all of us. Being a software developer i could hardly get my time to spent with my family & friends. And, moreover the stress has a strong impact in our personal life, too.

I have to attend office party quite frequently. But, did we really enjoy that? To the some extent yes. But, short lived.

But, think about your childhood days where you and your most beloved friends or relatives enjoyed every seconds of events like Pre-Puja Shopping, Mohaloya (Auspicious days for almost all the Bengali) etc. In Mohaloya, we wake up in the early morning. Some senior person from our family turned on the radio. Everyone sit and listening it with home made snacks & privileged tea.

Think about those days when we used to fight with our neighbors as part of a big battle between Mohon Bagan & East Bengal by listening it in someone's house. It is still presents but transformed into much more corporate way. Now, we have latest cell where i can listen live commentary with my new cool blue tooth handset. After all we are developing in a massive rate. But lost the cordiality, the essence of bonding.....

Don't you think - that is most cherished treasure you have spent?

I'm not a orthodox person and never support that old is always gold. But, few things certainly cannot be overlooked, and specially the relationship with others. In many cases, we are very much protective and maintains some strict boundaries.

Now, we also ignore our people even if we find them in trouble. We keep our eyes closed - so that at the end of the day you don't have to feel guilty about what you have done. Rather, you can convince yourself by saying - "You actually didn't notice - what was happen there". In some situation situation force us to do so. But, still there are instances when we could act - but escaped without paying attention due to complex and aggressive environment. Are we really progressing? When we are in danger - we expect to get help from others. But, when somebody really needs help - we forget our old days.

May be many of my new friends from here who are reading my blog certainly differ with me.

I would like to hear from you guys. It's up to you to decide. Will you?

Satyaki De.